DREAM FORUM - Jealousy dream
POSTED October 2, 2011, 00:07 by xillah (Viewed 381 times)

THE DREAM : Last night I dreamed that I was trying to set my friend up with a guy I had dated years ago. While he was an okay guy, he wasn't that great looking and wasn't really my type, but I thought since I was now married and my friend was newly single, she might want to go out with him.

We meet up at a church I used to attend when I was a kid and we each park our separate cars. When I introduce my friend to my ex the two of them immediately start kissing--at first I'm glad they're hitting it off, but they they begin to get really hot and heavy and I start to get mad.

After sitting through a pretty graphic make-out session, I finally snap and tell them to cut it out--not just because I'm grossed out, but because he used to kiss me that way, and I felt that anything we had previously done was cheapened. I felt angry that he didn't even pay attention to me or regret our parting ways.

The ex sees that I'm mad and rudely--as though my presence is a bother--tells me that I can join them if I want to. I get even more angry that he thinks that I'm trying to fight over him.

THE BACKGROUND:The guy in my dream was a man I had dated very briefly after a bad break-up, before I went to college. It was very brief and never even got serious as we both lost interest and simply quit calling each other.

The friend is a woman I haven't spoken to in over a year because of the nasty way she began to behave toward me when I graduated from college, got engaged to my husband, and finished my first novel all in the year she got her 3rd divorce. I decided I didn't need her negativity in my life and quit talking to her.
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Unclesirbobby (POSTED October 2, 2011, 11: 7: 11)
Well dreams are about our judgements. Often its a fine line - should we tell our friends to go out with someone who is bad news? Should we continue a relationship despite problems?

Dreams are very much related to recent events and feelings... particularly the day before ... as we process through recent thoughts.

Think of those bad emotions connected with the people in the dream... think of this phrase "I decided I didn't need her negativity in my life " and see how it related to your mindset at the time of the dream
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